what do you do when your best friend is talkin to ex and you still have feelings for him?????

Question

my friend is talkn to my ex and i do still have feelings for him and i kinda want him back but im dating someone right now i do not know what to do but i did talk to my ex once when he came to my school and he told me not to talk to him and i started crying and later on i found out my friend told him to leave me alone but for now i want to be friends wit him

Answer 1

Well my best friend is dating my ex and im kinda jelous like she broke up wif her bf two days ago and her ex and i are like bestfriends now bc like we used to be friends before but now we're like besties bc we're like supporting eachother we r really hurt from her....but my best friend kinda made me tell my ex to ask her out which i regret so much now because i never thought he would like her back...but yea i pretended like i was so happy for my bestfriend when she found out he was gunna ask her out but i was about to cry in math class but when i got home she texted me saying that shes going out with him and i was so pissed off and i started crying....yea i know its lame but whatevs so like you shouldnt try to make ur ex jelous but dont try to stalk or become bestfriends wif him like just take it slow...im really sorry but i think ur ex and ur bestfriend are like into eachother...i know how painful it is like it hurts alot but this is important because it shows that your bestfriend isnt really a good friend for you....IF they are into eachother....its just an idea...but yea....right now just try to lay low and try to not talk to ur ex and ur bestfriend and see if they notice u not talking....like it might take a few days but u gotta wait and see whats about to happen....like a real friend wouldnt do that....i know u think like she wouldnt do that or like i really dont not wanna be her friend but life isnt fair and if u wanna have the best life possible u gotta make sacrafices...and IF all this happens and ur left without a bestfriend, trust me theres plenty more people out there just waiting for a bestfriend like you....you might not believe me, i might not even believe myself but we're just gunna have to because thats the truth, you wont be some loser with no friends, ur gunna be a loser WITH friends lol jkjk ur so not a loser trust me. but trust me u should stick wif ur bf and NOT have feelings for someone else while dating someone else...trust me my bestfriend did that and she ended up dumping the guy thats not my bestie and like he was really hurt cuz my bestfriend liked 3 other guys while dating him....and he had no idea about it till after they broke up....alot of people dont feel bad for him and are making fun of him because he got dumped and he cried...heck i cried my first breakup but i survied....yesterday i forced him to go to some school party for only 6th graders and he almost cried cuz my bestfriend was there and i promised him that i wasnt gunna let her hurt him anymore than she already did....and my ex was at the party too...and my bestfriend was all over my ex...it was gross like she kept hugging him every 5 minutes like and my bestfriends ex, my bestie, was like really pissed off.....so really dont make the same mistakes my bestfriend made....if you dont like ur current boyfriend anymore you should tell him that you liked it better when u were friends or something like dont let him down too hard....and if you wanna get back together with ur ex that badly....do it! let him know u want him back like really ask him out or something....you gotta do something before its too late....i really hope i helped you and i know how u feel, its really tough i know...good luck (:

Answer 2

no offence or anything but didnt u say ur a lesbian...like im just asking like im not trying to be rude...

Answer 3

yes what she said

Answer 4

Who is ur friend? Why do u like him when ur with some one else? U can just tell ur friend that u care for him. Maybe u can become friends then start dating again. Just tell him u wanna be friends. Ur still in good hands if u ask him.